After taking out every piece of crap (s*itty friends, f**ed up bosses and other manipulative and evil forces) out of his life, Wesley says in Wanted (2008): "This *is* me taking control; from Sloan, from the fraternity, from Janice, billing reports, ergonomic keyboards, from cheating girlfriends and sack of shit best friends. This is me taking back control of my life."
I like the question he asks after he has shattered the cage he has been propped in his entire life:
What have you done lately?
Ask yourself that. I like that question.